Jun 2010

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Focus on what’s important

by Lia Halsall

Photo: we♥it

I have a goal. I’m focussed. I’m motivated. And I’m going to achieve it.

When we set goals we’re all fired up and determined to give it our everything no matter what. We always have the best intentions, and so we begin our journeys with zest and enthusiasm. As we venture down the road, as life would have it we come across our first pot hole. Life has presented us with a life lesson in this pot hole and how we handle it will determine how driven and dedicated we are to achieving our goal. So far so good, we’re back up and running again.

This next pot hole we encounter isn’t as easy as the last. Instead it’s going to take some manoeuvring around and by the looks of it will cost us time, valuable time. But we carry on none the less because we’re committed.

People around us start questioning us, doubting us. That okay, because it doesn’t deter us one little bit. Our GPS is set and we know where we’re going.

No matter what goal you set, how long it takes, what you encounter along the way or what other people think of you. This is your goal, your dream, your desire and no body else’s. So you’re the only person here who matters. So what if your circumstances change from day to day and it effects your goal in some way. Does that mean that you’ve failed? Does that mean you’re a failure? Of course it doesn’t.

When you start, when you finish and whether or not you reach your destination isn’t what really matters. Remember the age old saying of “it’s not whether you win or lose, it’s how you play the game”? Well it’s kind of like that. What matters is that you set your goal, you started your journey, you endured and overcome the many pot holes that life presented you and continued on regardless. Life being the unpredictable creature that it is does what it does and we simply have to accept it.

So like you I have come across many a pot hole along my journey to reaching my goal. Given it has changed along the way due to a pot hole it hasn’t stopped me, not one little bit. It’s still something positive that I’m working towards and come hell or high water I will achieve it, and nor should you. Focus on what’s important and be all that you can be.

{ 12 comments… read them below or add one }

Leisl Friday 04 June 10 at 08:03

Hope you don’t mind me commenting on another successful blog post of yours Lia but I loved it!!! You post such great blog entries on topics which are so relevant to the bigger picture in life. Thanks so much for keeping the inspiration well and truely alive!
xo

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Lia Halsall Friday 04 June 10 at 12:59

Comment away, I’m always interested in hearing what my readers think Leisl. I’m just happy that you got something out of it. xxx

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Sandra Friday 04 June 10 at 08:20

Nice post Lia, and so true. One of my favourite quotes comes from the late John Lennon – “Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans…”
xoxox

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Lia Halsall Friday 04 June 10 at 12:59

I love that quote, so true so true. Thanks for sharing Sandra. xxx

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KerryW Friday 04 June 10 at 12:55

Great post Lia! Enjoyed the reminder. :)

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Lia Halsall Friday 04 June 10 at 12:57

I’m constantly having to remind myself Kerry. LOL!! xxx

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skinny latte Friday 04 June 10 at 18:47

You’re coming up with some pearls this week Lia! :)

I too am working on enjoying the journey as well as the destination these days, pot holes and all. If there’s anything I’ve learned over the years it’s not to crucify yourself over bumps in the road and the inevitable detours, because those too can take you to some amazing places.

Love your work as always! xx

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Lia Halsall Friday 04 June 10 at 19:45

I’m been trying to improve my writing you could say. Nothing compared to your standard of writing Phil, but I am trying my best. Guessing by the comments this week it seems that I’m on the right track. xxx

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Shannon Friday 04 June 10 at 22:07

Great post Lia. Thanks for sharing xx

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Lia Halsall Friday 04 June 10 at 23:03

You are most welcome Shannon. xxx

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Kelly Olexa Sunday 06 June 10 at 00:51

OMG I love that picture and the quote. So true. What others say is irrelevant and only can stray us from the focus. ;-)

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Lia Halsall Sunday 06 June 10 at 09:07

I totally agree Kelly. xxx

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