November

20

Who’s shout is it?

by Lia Halsall

Absolut I don’t drink vodka but I’ll willing to make an exception this one time, who’s joining me? LOL!! Frankie? ;)

It’s that time of year again where time just keeps getting away from us in anticipation for the festive season. For me, it’s still moving fast but at the same time I’m slowing down to a nice and steady pace. In fact this week I changed my leave and extended it to six weeks over the xmas new year break, got to be happy with that I know I am. I plan on taking time out in every aspect of the word and doing all the things I need to do as well as want to do. It’ll be my time to reflect on the year behind me and seek some closure to some aspects of my life. When one door closes in your life another one opens.

2010 is going to be a big year for us, by us I mean Team Halsall. We have some really big plans in store both personally and professionally. We’ve already worked out next years health and fitness goals and have organised our periodisation training into three different stages. As always we’ll have short and long term goals using the S.M.A.R.T Model to keep us both inspired and motivated, it’s something I’ve always done and I find it works for me. I’ll be blogging my entire journey including my training, nutrition and supplementation because it’s all of my work.

Today’s one of those days I’m hoping is over before it begins. I’m having to drive four hours just so I can attend court with a magistrate’s view to determine if an inquest should be held in the death of Dad. Sixteen months has passed and still no death certificate, his estate still frozen, no answers let alone any closure and don’t even get me started on his so called partner not placing a plaque on his grave site after all this time. Instead we visit an unmarked grave, there just aren’t words. It’s nothing short of heart breaking and makes me sick to the stomach when I go there. Like we haven’t suffered enough losing both our parents. I’m just thankful they never married or had any children. I’d hate to be related to such an individual who shows no respect to her partners own flesh and blood. I guess that’s what happens when you leave your wife who was dying of cancer at the time and two young children to be with your daughters so called best friend who was twenty years his junior and legally off limits. Through everything, even her beating me and getting charged for it I’ve remained completely loyal to him even though my family and friends told me that he wasn’t deserving of it. Dad was my everything and I couldn’t not love him for who he was before her. So yes, yes I still have my issues and many of them that have gone to the grave with him. Well that’s my vent out of the way, so moving right along shall we.

So because today isn’t going to be a very good day I’ve organised something positive for tomorrow to help pick my spirits up. I have gold class tickets for NEW MOON!! I’m a huge fan of the twilight saga and like everyone else have been anxiously awaiting it’s release. I bought the tickets when they first came on sale and new that this would cheer me up no matter how doom and gloom I was feeling. Here’s hoping it works.

Oh and one last thing before I go ladies. Donna emailed me again, this time with locations and dates for Jen Hendershott’s Phat Camp 2010. Here’s what she wrote:

Hi Ladies,

Well – good news to start your day – Jen is definitely coming back to Australia in 2010, and there are 2 camps:

1. Phat Camp Gold Coast: 5-7th November 2010
2. Phat Camp Melbourne: 12-14th November 2010

The dates are due to go on-line at www.getphatwithjen.com, so when they do, register your place. For those who don’t have a deposit from 2009, Jen is offering an early bird special of $250 US instead of $300US, or 2 for $500US, if paid for before March 1st, 2010. So, let everyone you know, know about Phat Camp, but don’t wait too long – places will be filling fast!!

Oh, and guys, this would make a fantastic xmas present – only 6 weeks til xmas.

Hope to see you all there

Donna Jones
Phat Camp Australia
www.donnaj.com.au
www.getphatwithjen.com

I should’ve posted this last week when I got it but unfortunately I didn’t so my apologies but better late than never. Is anyone thinking of going and if so which location?

Arrivederci per ora.

{ 10 comments… read them below or add one }

1 Frankie Friday 20 November 09 at 07:24

I’ll have a double Lia! He he..no seriously..does he have a twin?

Big (((((hugs))))) coming to help get you through the sucky part of your day. xxx

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2 Sandra Friday 20 November 09 at 08:23

It’s going to be a scorcher here today…so I think a nice tall glass of icy water would be my drink of choice, Lia…LOL
Seriously though, hope everything goes well for you today, as if you hadn’t gone through enough,it has to drag on…xxx
Phat Camp! Would love to go – obviously will have to travel either to Melbourne or Gold Coast, I guess I’ll make up my mind when I find out who else is going and can work out accommodation etc.

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3 Raechelle Friday 20 November 09 at 08:34

I’ll be thinking of you today! Good luck with it all-hopeuflly soon you will get some bit of closure.
Have fun at the movie!

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4 KerryW Friday 20 November 09 at 09:59

‘De Ja Vu’ (the photo that is…I’ve seen it somewhere before. Though one can never get enough of these images :P ).

I have a feeling 2010 is going to be an AWESOME year too Lia! I hope the othe not-so-inspiring issues will be sorted quickly, so you can focus 100% on the positive aspects.

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5 Vicki Friday 20 November 09 at 10:17

Hi Lia,
Firstly just letting you know I am thinking of you and the court case. I hope there aren’t any hiccups and that things sort themselves out as best they can. I know it has been such a long, draining and emotional process but I truly hope that you get some closure soon ((hugs)).
With Phat Camp…as I mentioned before I would LOVE to go again, just depends on comp stuff…the Natural Olympia is being held the same weekend as the Gold Coast Phat Camp…unfortunately in ‘10 it’ll be over in Nevada, not the Gold Coast!! :( I was hoping to do the qualifier in May and if I made it through, was planning on going over so it is going to depend on that, as the plan would then be to stay in the States for a few weeks after and make a holiday of it….SO in saying that I have some serious thinking to do!!
It is definitely something I am hanging to do again though…
Are you planning on doing the camp?

Vic x

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6 Lynne Friday 20 November 09 at 11:45

Hi Lia,

My heart goes out to you. I can’t believe how similar your story is to mine, right down to the unmarked graves of my father, brother and sister. I only wanted to share this with you to let you know that you are not alone and that I will be thinking of you, as I’m sure others who care so much about you will be. Just because you “vent”, when you are forced to reopen old wounds does not mean you have issues. It means you care (alot). Besides you ARE dealing with it, by doing what needs to be done and talking about it.

I truely hope that today will be the beginning of the closure that you deserve, and yes; if I lived down there, I would definately have a vodka with you (even though I don’t drink the stuff) Maybe a raincheque is in order,

Luv Lynne xo.

PS. 2010 will be awesome.

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7 Lorraine Kreuzer Friday 20 November 09 at 16:00

Lia I am wishing you strength and peace to help you get through today.
Your Dad has left behind a wonderful daughter who is an inspiration to many. The love you have for your parents will remain locked in your heart forever.

Love Lorraine xox

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8 Kate A Friday 20 November 09 at 17:19

My word, that was a mind altering blog; for many reasons.

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9 Jude Friday 20 November 09 at 22:44

Hope all went well today. And I’m with Frankie – I’ll have a double thank you very much!

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10 Philippa Friday 20 November 09 at 23:58

Hope all went well today Lia – well, as well as it could have :) I don’t do vodka either, but I’ll have a Koko Black hot chocolate with you anytime!! xx

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