June

21

Good Bye For Now

by Lia Halsall

Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and or Depression is what I’m suffering from apparently, so taking a break from all unnecessary extra curricular activities other than my work and health and fitness is a definite must for the time being. I’m not going to go into it or even what triggered it, it’s far too personal. I’m still actively working as the Forum Moderator over at LindyOlsen.com’s Forum so I can be located there if you want to check in with me from time to time. As for my blog, facebook and even email, I won’t be actively using these forms of communication for a while until I’ve worked through my grief. This isn’t personal by any means, you all know how much your love and support has meant to me especially over this past year. But I have to do what I have to do in order to get through this next challenge I’m facing. I will miss each and every one of you, even my blog lurkers. If I’m no good to myself then I’m no good to anyone else and this is one of my driving forces behind my recent decision.

You would have noticed and continue to notice over time changes to the appearance of my blog. I plan on finishing what I started at the beginning of the year with regards to it’s design so that when I do return everything’s as it should be.

Please know that I am okay, I’m seeking professional help and I have a support network I love and trust who are helping me. These individuals are what are keeping me going and I can’t thank them enough.

{ 38 comments… read them below or add one }

1 Rae Sunday 21 June 09 at 11:25

And we all love you too. It’s going to be a hard time for you, but be rest assured I am here for you any time day or night xxx

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2 Lorraine Sunday 21 June 09 at 12:19

Lots of love to you Lia. xox

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3 Lia Halsall Sunday 21 June 09 at 12:20

Thanks Lorraine. xxx

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4 Lisa Jane Sunday 21 June 09 at 12:35

I’ll miss you lovely BUT that said, I totally understand putting yourself first for awhile. God knows you always put everyone else first. I hope your break does you the world of good and beings you the peace and serenity you deserve.

I’ll be thinking good thoughts for you.

Lots of love

Lisa
xox

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5 Lia Halsall Sunday 21 June 09 at 12:42

So do I Lisa, so do I. xxx

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6 Vicki Sunday 21 June 09 at 13:31

So sorry to hear that you are not feeling the best Lia but know that we are all behind you, even if some of us are far away. It’s good that you are taking time out for you though – it’s something you need to make a priority. And when you are ready we will all be here waiting with open arms :)

Vicki xxxx

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7 Lia Halsall Sunday 21 June 09 at 13:32

Vicki you have such a caring soul and I’m so thankful for people like you in this world. xxx

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8 Lindy Sunday 21 June 09 at 13:38

you are way to precious to all of us to be anything but fabulous. I know you are in the right place to deal with all this and you will be that phoenix we all know you are. Take your time, don’t hold onto things inside, let them out and you heal your soul my darling girl! ps i am hooked on these dam tighlight books!….. xx

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9 Lia Halsall Sunday 21 June 09 at 13:39

I’ve put some things into place that will help me let go so to speak Lindy-Lou. We’ll talk about it this week in a more private forum though.

As for your books, I knew you would love them! They’re addictive aren’t they. I’m reading twilight now that I’ve read the last three. xxx

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10 Debs Sunday 21 June 09 at 14:32

You know how much you mean to me Lia and I will do anything for you, always remember that.
As you know I find it difficult to put my words in writing like this so will talk to you in person as soon as your ready :-)
Love you,
Deb xxx

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11 Lia Halsall Sunday 21 June 09 at 14:33

You’re always such a sweetie Deb. What would I do without you. We’ll talk during the week sometime, I promise. xxx

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12 KerryW Sunday 21 June 09 at 15:17

Wishing you all the very best Lia for your recovery. Take care and heal quickly. :)

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13 Lia Halsall Sunday 21 June 09 at 15:18

That’s the plan Kerry.

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14 Jadey Sunday 21 June 09 at 21:14

Hi Lia Sweetheart,
Thinking of you and praying for strength in this time of difficulty for you. I know you’ve had a hard past year of your life and I know you will come out on the other side stronger and better than ever! You are amazing and you will succeed at life, you are an inspiration and I know you will heal as time heals. In the meantime, I will miss your blogs and regular updates but can’t wait to have you back ready to go! As always, I’m here if you need anything. Lots of love and hugs to you.
Jadey xx

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15 Amelia Monday 22 June 09 at 07:47

Thinking of you Lia – youre one helluva strong woman – and i know you will get through all this x

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16 Lia Halsall Monday 22 June 09 at 07:56

I’m counting on that strength Amelia. xxx

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17 Patricia Monday 22 June 09 at 11:15

I wondered how you were, your blog had seemed quiet. You have been through a tremendous amount, best of luck, hope you feel better soon….

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18 Lia Halsall Monday 22 June 09 at 12:45

I’ve been better but the only way is up now thanks Patricia.

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19 Cat Monday 22 June 09 at 15:41

Hey Lia, i’ve still been checking in from time to time with your blog even though i stopped blogging myself. As someone who also suffers from PTSD i just wanted you to know that you aren’t alone even though sometimes that’s exactly how it feels. You will overcome it, the most important thing i learned in my journey through it was to be kind to myself and the importance of ‘me’ time which is what you are giving yourself. Stay strong and know that the light is definately there at the end of the tunnel and we are all holding candles to help you along your journey. xo

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20 Lia Halsall Monday 22 June 09 at 17:29

Thanks Cat, I appreciate your sharing your experience with me. It gives me hope. xxx

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21 Trudi Monday 22 June 09 at 18:53

Hi Lia,
Just wanted to say a big thankyou for the time you have shared with not only myself but for all those on this blog who benefit from your encouragement and support.
Personally I send you every ounce of strength there is to help you through this time. There is no time limit you need to work to..so see each day for what it brings..
I wish you all the health and happiness you deserve. Trudsxx

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22 Kerrie Lear Monday 22 June 09 at 20:56

You are always in my thoughts Lia, wishing you all the strength and love to get you through this. Will miss you, but, understand it is for the best that you concentrate on you. Kerrie xxx

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23 Lia Halsall Monday 22 June 09 at 20:57

It’s funny you should leave me a message, I was only thinking of you yesterday Kerrie. *insert twilight music here* xxx

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24 Philippa Tuesday 23 June 09 at 00:59

All my love to you Lia – your blog always brings a smile to my face, and I hope you know that you’ve given so many people hope and confidence to live their best life. You deserve nothing less for yourself. Peace, light and love to you my friend xoxox

PS: Whenever I walk past Louis Vuitton in London, I think of you :P

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25 Lia Halsall Tuesday 23 June 09 at 01:00

Yes well, every girl has to have an obsession and mine is with Louis Vuitton. LOL!! I have the same effect every time I visit Koko Black. I can’t thank you enough for introducing me to the world’s greatest hot chocolate and of course the belgian spoil, they’re both divine Phil. xxx

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26 Claudine Tuesday 23 June 09 at 06:25

We love you Lia! You have taken care of everybody else, now it’s your turn. I will come back from time to time to check up on you… Be well my dear friend! xxx

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27 Lia Halsall Tuesday 23 June 09 at 06:26

Don’t worry, I’m taking care of myself Claudine. I’m missing blogging already but it’s necessary to take this time out for myself. xxx

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28 Valley Girl Tuesday 23 June 09 at 06:55

I am thinking of you Lia, and these things take time to heal through.
you are doing the right thing` “putting you first” Thats a must!

Hope your detox is helping wonders to.
VG xoxoxooxooxo

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29 Lia Halsall Tuesday 23 June 09 at 09:14

Putting myself first is what needed to be done, otherwise I’d be going around and around in cirlces achieving nothing and ending back at the same place every single time. This time had to be different if I wanted a different outcome but not one I’m enjoying or looking forward too. It’s a necessary evil Valley Girl. xxx

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30 Essie Tuesday 23 June 09 at 18:12

Take care Lia, you have been through a lot this last year, more than most. Take this time to heal and learn who you are. You are so caring towards others it’s now time for you to care for yourself, from part time lurker, Essie (TopEndGirl)

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31 Lia Halsall Tuesday 23 June 09 at 19:14

Thanks Essie. It never ceases to amaze me the magnitude of bloggers, followers and lurkers I have. Never in a million years would I have thought that reading my blog would be of interest to anyone let alone end up being my extended internet family. How wrong I was. Here’s hoping that this time out will help me with my grieving so I can finally let go of Mum & Dad. xxx

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32 Penny Friday 03 July 09 at 14:58

Hi Lia
Ive just joined this evening…..& I have sent you a personal email……being parentless is something I understand unfortunately…..& with support from loved ones, therapy(for me anyways), & talking, talking, talking, talking…….I came to a healthy place. Natural products are out there also for dealing with depression…..Catherine Carrigan…..helped me big time with mine….Her book : Healing Depression was a great read…
Hope this helps……Peace out…..

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33 Lia Halsall Friday 03 July 09 at 17:09

Hi Penny,

Thank you for your lovely comment and your lovely email, I’ve replied to it already so it should be in your inbox. Losing both my parents at the time I thought was devastating but as time goes on it just gets harder and harder to deal with. Especially this first year. I’m trying, I truly am trying but it’s just so damn exhausting all the time trying to be normal for everyone else’s sake.

Kindest Regards,
Lia

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34 Cindii-Lea Thursday 09 July 09 at 00:37

Hi Lia :)

u r so inspirational!!! I’m gonna miss ya sooo much. When do you think ul be back online?
Thnkn of ya,

Cindii-Lea :D

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35 Lia Halsall Sunday 21 June 09 at 11:31

Thanks Rae. *sobbing* xxx

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36 Lia Halsall Sunday 21 June 09 at 21:31

Such a heart of gold you have Jadey. Always there to support with your encouraging words. This is yet another challenge I have to over come and once I’m through the worst of it I’ll be back stronger than ever before hopefully. I’ll miss you too but will see you in a couple of weeks sweetheart. Stay strong, not long to go now. xxx

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37 Lia Halsall Monday 22 June 09 at 19:26

Trudi that is the sweetest comment, you almost made me cry it was so heart felt, thank you. The world is a better place because you’re in it I have no doubt. I’ll see you on the other side of this journey. xxx

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38 Lia Halsall Thursday 09 July 09 at 00:38

Hi Cindii-Lea,

I’m not sure at this stage when I’ll be back online blogging regularly, soon hopefully.

Kindest regards,
Lia :)

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